1. Work harder and play better. Successful people know
that nothing worthwhile comes easy. Hard work is important, but it is
equally important to have fun. Go to any successful start-up company,
and you’ll see employees blowing off steam on ping-pong tables, throwing
darts, browsing books on a shelf, or playing trash-can basketball.
Frolicking at work isn’t frivolous. Dispensed in small doses, it’s a
powerful success medicine. Don’t be a workaholic; be a “workafrolic”
instead.
2. Cultivate curiosity. Successful
people are not just curious about their chosen field, they are curious
about EVERYTHING. They continually think, explore new ideas, ask dozens
of questions, and always try to figure out how things work and how they
could be made to work better. Curiosity is the most powerful
business-improvement and personal-success engine.
3. Expand your endurance.
Push yourself mentally and physically. You can find more successful
people in a gym than in a movie theater. Successful people know how to
generate and maintain positive energy 24/7. They strive to be physically
fit, and at the same time they work on their psychological fitness.
Here three suggestions:
A) Push past the negative self-talk that
says, “I am not good enough, I am not smart enough, and I don’t think I
am going to make it.”
B) Push beyond your fears. Fear is an acronym
for “false evidence appearing real.” Embrace the fear, and it will
loosen its grip on you.
C) Push past your self-limitations. Think big. Life is too short to waste on small stuff.
4. Turn failure into fertilizer.
Thomas Edison failed thousands of times before he found a filament that
would glow in a vacuum tube, which lead to his invention of the
lightbulb. Winston Churchill said, “Success is not final, and failure is
not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”
5. Focus.
Successful people begin each day with written goals they want to
achieve. They know that the onslaught of incoming emails, calls, and
texts will distract them, but each time they get sidetracked, they go
back to working on the next item on their list. People who start a new
task every three minutes end up doing in an hour 20 small tasks that
merely contribute to maintaining the status quo. It is far better to
invest your complete mental focus on two or three tasks per hour and
create steady forward momentum.
6. Innovate.
Successful people know that having innovative ideas is not enough. What
counts is how many new ideas you can implement successfully. What holds
people back is not the difficulty of implementing their ideas, but what
people say when they start sharing their ideas with others. Oracle founder Larry Ellison said it best: “When you innovate, you’ve got to be prepared for everyone telling you that you’re nuts.”
7. Manage disappointment.
Successful people realize that reaching success often depends on how
they manage the inevitable disappointments that unexpectedly impact
their lives. When people get disappointed, they often withdraw, and
their anger turns inward. Successful people transform disappointment
into a journey of self-discovery, where they reconnect with their inner
strengths. Disappointment well managed will become the cradle of
ambition.
8. Improvise. Successful people
rarely read a book on how to become successful. Why? Because they are
the ones who write the books that inspire others to reach success. The
one key ingredient that authors of success books consistently ignore is
the art of improvisation. Charles Darwin identified improvisation as
most critical, saying, “In the long history of humankind, those who
learned to collaborate and improvise most effectively have prevailed.”
George Gershwin echoed this idea by writing, “Life is a lot like
jazz…it’s best when you improvise.”
9. Dream.
Successful people don’t ask for more resources to turn their dreams into
reality. They are more resourceful about closing the gap between
dreaming and doing. Johann Wolfgang von Goethe believed that dreams
played a vital part in reaching success: “Dream no small dreams, for
they have no power to move the hearts of men.”
10. Define success.
Successful people know that how you define success will define your
success potential. There are three basic ways to define success: Some
people define success through a material scoreboard. It can be the size
of their house, the size of their boat, the size of their bank account.
Other people define success with a tuning fork. As they communicate with
the world, they experience a special feeling. They may say, “I am
successful when I feel happy.” A third group defines success as a
continuous cycle of setting and reaching progressively more challenging
goals.
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